THE READY REPORT

A Slippery Slope: What lube is best for you?

What are you into? Are you a fisting queen? Do you like using toys, or just plain old missionary? Whatever it is, you’ll probably need lube to do it. Luckily for you, the sexperts of Pure for Men h...

A simple yes or no: consent in the modern age

By Cartie Whitelaw  When it comes to intimacy, oftentimes the impression we have in our mind is a wordless infatuation. The bodies do the talking, and subliminal messages are as clear as day. Fro...

Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Monogamy: Understanding Modern Gay Relationships

By Cartie Whitelaw When it comes to falling in love, we often picture some old black and white film or maybe something new like Call Me by Your Name. While the movies are great, real life is ofte...

Breakfast at Pure for Men: Ready Rings Are A Gay’s Best Friend.

By Cartie Whitelaw   Every top dreams of the day his bottom gets him a cock ring. His bottom is wearing a white jockstrap, and he walks down the bedroom hall with Slayyyter playing in the backgroun...

Supporting Queer Wellness During the Holidays

By Cartie Whitelaw   As we approach the festive season ahead, our thoughts can be conflicting: delicious cookies, homophobic uncles, Christmas lights, isolation, snowball fights, and fuzzy sweaters...

From Glory Hole Queens to Kinky Doctors, We Have You Covered: The Ultimate Holiday Gift Guide

The ultimate gift guide for all the gays in you life for this holiday season.

Stay Ready, Even When It’s Spooky Season

Whether you’re heading out in full glam or cozying up for a horror movie marathon, self-care is the ultimate Halloween mood.

Pure for Men Celebrates 10 Years With a Pool Party to Remember

The Celebration isn’t over yet! Pure for Men marked a major milestone: 10 years of community, resilience, and wellness. To celebrate, we hosted an unforgettable pool party at the Montrose Country ...

Prioritizing Wellness: Sexual Health Awareness Month

Sexual health isn’t just about the absence of illness, it’s about presence: presence of confidence, joy, safety, and freedom. This month, and every month, Pure for Men is here to help you celebrate...

Let’s Get Slippery: Our #SpitTakes Challenge Is On

We want the slip-ups, the overshares, the “did-that-just-happen?” moments. Whether it’s a hilarious hookup fail or a lesson in why spit isn’t always enough, it’s your time to spill. Literally.