A Guide to Freaky Sex

10.26.2021 - Sex Ed

“Mr. Grey will see you now.”

You’re probably familiar with this quote and Mr. Grey’s red room of wonders. But just because you probably won’t hear those words outside of your bedroom fantasies, that doesn’t mean you can’t have a similar experience.

Sex doesn’t have to be routine or banal, it can be exciting, thrilling, and can even be freakier than your neighbor’s poor choice of Halloween decorations. Even if you know every in and out about the original in and out, there’s always something to be learned about switching up your bedroom game!

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What Is Freaky Sex?

Freaky to you may be turning the lights off, while to someone else freaky means turning the lights off while upside down and covered head to toe in leather.

Freaky sex techniques and methods are endless, but some common ones include BDSM, exploring fetishes, and roleplaying. You can even experiment with new toys, new positions, or including a third person in the fun. It may also be worth the investment to get sex pillows or try out new massage oils to massage him in a non-typical area!

Beyond having sex in front of the window or trying the wheelbarrow position, there are also indirect methods like sexting throughout the day or hovering your hand over his body without direct contact as foreplay.

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The Do’s

The best advice for freaky sex is to communicate well with your partner, use safe words, and always be mindful of consent. Some men like a little bit of pain with pleasure, but others don’t. Sexual exploration should always be consensual for all partners involved, including any third additions to the group.

You also need to be sure that you’re fully stocked on your pills for maximum comfort. While there’s certainly no shame in using the little blue pills, our fiber capsules will keep you ready for any type of romp.

To prevent injuries or STI spread, you should be using condoms and lube for anal sex. Aftercare may also be needed such as a warm shower or resting for a few days.

The Don’ts

Even though it may be in your wildest fantasy to have sex on top of the empire state building, we strongly encourage you to not do anything illegal or unsafe. Freaky is good, felony not so much!

When you do have freaky (and safe) sex, don’t come unprepared. Be fully stocked in everything from lube to spare keys for the handcuffs.

It’s also not wise to go too long without taking a break, it’s okay to take time to freshen up with your wipes before going back for round 2!

Most importantly, don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with or push your partner to do something they don’t want to do. It’s okay to experiment, but make sure it’s fun for everyone first.

Stay Ready for Freaky Sex

Whether it’s your first time exploring your inner kinks or if you’ve proudly owned a leather skinsuit for years, you can always learn something new.

No matter the type of sex, Pure for Men is here to help you stay ready with our quality fiber capsules and skin care products for after playtime. Stay ready and stay freaky this October when trick or treating in the bedroom!

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